Me.... Myself... And Them???
So far, it has been almost two decades since we have been in each other's lives. We had been through the good. The bad. AND the UGLY. Being a married woman, it can often times become a major task to simply stay true to and not lose yourself. After years of marriage, parenting, being a homemaker and an EVERYTHING to my husband, life became boring and a little unsatisfying. I noticed that everything I did was completely for my children and husband. Now, don't get me wrong. I would lie down and die for them and there was no one else whom I cared about to such an extinct. But I realized that I'd lost touch with my own identity. I did not have any friends who could really relate and I had never really trusted too many people outside of my husband; who was my best friend. And other young women who were around my age were still up in the clubs and trying to get a man or take someone else's. So uummm... Yeah. I was kind of screwed. I even tried meeting like minded ladies but everyone who says they're like minded are not always like minded. There were even some chicks who wanted to have sex with me or wanted me to join her and her significant other in the bedroom. Don't misunderstand... I suppose that could have been taken as a compliment, but that was not what I was looking for. Quickly, that was given up on and I had to try something different.
I had to make the decision to take my own destiny into my hands and go out there to make some things happen. For as long as I could remember, I always had the entrepreneurial spirit and heart. Some of my best interest were that of helping others help themselves. This was the moment I decided to begin blogging about different types of relationships. There was clearly a need of an outlet for young ladies and women who were similar situations. It doesn't matter your age, race, social status or whatever. Us women, wives and mothers must figure out our passion and become familiar with what makes us happy as an individual. You can't give love and happiness to ANYONE until you find that love and happiness within yourself first. Sight of that love and happiness with oneself should never cloud your judgment for any reason.